The drop hits, the whole field jumps, and when your feet land, your friends are gone.
It's 1 a.m. at the bass stage. Your phone glows a red 2% and then nothing. Around you rises a forest of totems: a rubber chicken on a pole, a hand-painted sign, a glowing jellyfish bobbing ten feet in the air. You turn in a slow circle, and every direction looks exactly the same.
"You good?"
The jellyfish belongs to a tall stranger with kandi stacked to both elbows. He hands you water from his pack and waits while you drink. Then he holds up two fingers. Peace sign to peace sign. Half a heart to half a heart. Palms flat together. Fingers laced, and a bracelet slides from his wrist onto yours. The letter beads spell FOUND.
"Text nobody," he says. "Just stand here." He lifts the jellyfish high and sways it like a lighthouse, and four minutes later your crew comes barreling through the crowd, shouting your name.
That's PLUR: Peace, Love, Unity, Respect. Four words, one handshake, and the reason a crowd of strangers can feel like family by sunrise.
We're Magus and Lylyth Fawn, Los Angeles visionary artists who've built our lives around these dance floors. Here's where PLUR came from, how kandi works, and how to live it at any festival or underground rave in 2026.
What does PLUR stand for?
PLUR stands for Peace, Love, Unity, Respect, the four-word code at the heart of rave and festival culture. It asks you to keep the dance floor calm, show strangers kindness, welcome everyone whatever their background or experience, and respect the artists, the venue, your fellow ravers and yourself. At Magus Fawn we think of it as the scene's handshake agreement.
Here's how each letter looks on a real dance floor, with a piece that carries its spirit:
- Peace. Bring good energy, give people room on the floor, and settle friction calmly, ideally with a laugh. Om is the sacred syllable chanted in Hindu, Buddhist and Jain practice, and our Golden OM snapback ($40, one size) wraps black-and-gold geometry around the crown with a Flower of Life lattice on the brim.
- Love. Kindness to strangers. A compliment, a shared fan, helping someone find their friends. It can turn a whole night around. Our most literal take is the Hearts & Roses women's festival cloak ($250): hot pink and magenta liquid swirls with one big heart on the back, a faux-fur fleece lining, double front zipper and four pockets, unisex XS–5XL. It stars in our house-festival proposal story, Four Fingers of Sun.
- Unity. Everyone belongs, whatever your style, age or experience level. Mycelium is the underground web that ties a forest together, which is why we love the Alien Mycelium snapback ($40, one size): black-and-white linework of an alien face rising among mushroom forms.
- Respect. For the artists, the venue, the land, fellow ravers and yourself. Pick up your trash, follow the rules, look out for the people around you. The Cosmic Knight cotton pullover hoodie ($100) wears navy and teal armor-like ornament for anyone guarding the vibe: 310 g/m² cotton, printed edge to edge through a new cotton dye-sublimation process from our cut-and-sew partners, sizes XS–6XL.
Where did PLUR come from?
PLUR grew out of the early-1990s American rave scene. Brooklyn DJ Frankie Bones is the name most tied to it: in the best-known telling, a fight broke out at a 1993 party and he told the crowd to start showing some peace, love and unity. "Respect" joined the motto later, championed by Laura La Gassa.
The details are pure rave history, which is to say they live in retellings:
- The words are older than the acronym. As Wikipedia's PLUR entry summarizes, "peace" and "love" trace back to the hippie and peace movements, and "respect" to Black and hip hop culture.
- The movement started before the speech. In a 2016 interview with Insomniac, Bones dated it to the Fourth of July, 1990, and said, "we called it 'PLUM' when we started," for the Peace, Love and Unity Movement. Other accounts report that his brother and Storm Rave partner, Adam X, painted "Peace Love Unity" on a train car that same day.
- The famous speech has two addresses. The usual version puts it at one of Bones's Storm Raves in Brooklyn in June 1993. Bones himself has placed it at a party in the Bronx. Either way, his warning began, "If you don't start showing some peace, love, and unity…" and the crowd took the first part to heart.
- Respect made it four. The fourth letter, R, was championed by Laura La Gassa, and PLUR it has been ever since.
Three decades later, the acronym that started as a plea to stop a scuffle is printed on flags, strung into bracelets and taught to first-timers at the gate.
What is kandi, and how do you trade it?
Kandi are bracelets strung from bright plastic pony beads, often with letter beads spelling a word or name, that ravers make and give away. Trading kandi is PLUR you can hold: you swap with the PLUR handshake, then wear the stack as a diary of everyone you met. At Magus Fawn, we say bring twice as many as you think.
The PLUR handshake, step by step:
- Peace: make a peace sign and touch fingertips with the other person's peace sign.
- Love: each of you curves one hand into half a heart, and you join them into a whole one.
- Unity: press your palms flat together.
- Respect: lace your fingers, and slide a bracelet from your wrist onto theirs as they do the same.
Kandi etiquette from the veterans:
- Singles are for trading, cuffs are for keeping. A single is one strand; a cuff is a wide, multi-row piece that takes hours. Trade singles freely and save cuffs for someone special.
- Ask first, and smile at a "no thanks." Not everyone trades, and that's part of respect too.
- Make the words personal. A bracelet that says FOUND, HOME or FIRST RAVE becomes a story.
In our harbor-fog love story One Beat Ahead, a single kandi cuff carries the whole plot, and in Small Sips a nurse thanks the four strangers who walked her to the medical tent with bracelets from her own stack.
How does PLUR show up at different festivals?
PLUR shows up everywhere, but it speaks a different dialect in each scene. Trance and heavy bass crowds wear it openly, with kandi, flags and the handshake. House floors call it love, psytrance gatherings express it as care for the land, techno rooms practice it as quiet respect, and regional burns follow Burning Man's Ten Principles instead.

- Trance. PLUR's heartland: fan families with flags, kandi up to the elbows, and "trance family" spoken without a trace of irony. Dreamstate and EDC's quantumVALLEY stage are where you'll see the handshake most. Our list of must-attend festivals and raves in 2027 has the dates.
- Bass. On the heavy side, kandi and PLUR overlap with trance, and totems, bass families and label fandoms keep crews together. Respect here includes respect for the soundsystem itself, and for culture: in 2014, British Columbia's Bass Coast banned feathered headdresses out of respect for First Nations culture. The Temple of Sound sleeveless hoodie ($75) turns that devotion into art: a temple built from speaker cones, on 180 g/m² jersey, sizes S–2XL. Read the soundsystem story Play for the Floor.
- House. The dialect is "house music and love," a phrase Desert Hearts built its whole identity around, before the festival went on hiatus. Friends dance in a loose circle, and sunset sets do the talking.
- Psytrance. PLUR becomes care for the land and the tribe: eco and DIY ethics, chill-out domes, workshops and healing spaces. For cosmic sunrise sets, the Universal Consciousness snapback ($40, one size) carries a serene face and a mandala third eye in violet and blue. Best-friend story from an Australian bush doof: Facing the Wrong Way.
- Techno. The quietest dialect. Phone-free floors, "no photos" stickers over lenses, long hypnotic sets, and the respect of letting everyone disappear into the music. Our English-woods techno love story is Write One True Thing.
- Regional burns. Burns run on Burning Man's Ten Principles, including radical inclusion, gifting and leaving no trace. Kandi fits right in, because a bracelet is a gift. Our gifting story is The Hoodie That Went Around.
What is a festival family?
A festival family is the crew you find, not just the one you arrive with: campmates, rail neighbors and strangers who become the people you meet every year. It's PLUR's unity made permanent. Electric Forest fans call theirs the Forest Family, trance fans say trance family, and every crew invents its own rituals.
How festival families hold together:
- A landmark and a time. Pick a meeting spot in daylight, because everything looks different at 2 a.m.
- Something to spot. A totem, a flag or a shared print. Our guide to matching rave outfits for couples and crews is built on exactly that idea.
- The kids count too. Plenty of festival families include actual children. The Space Cats kid's pullover hoodie ($75) floats cats among planets and nebulae, with a drawstring-free hood, 230 g/m² scuba knit, sizes 2XS–XL. Its story is The Cat Comet.

How do you practice PLUR at a festival?
Practice PLUR with small, repeatable acts: share water, give people space, trade kandi with a smile, walk anyone unwell to the medical tent or a cool-down area, pick up your trash, and welcome first-timers like old friends. PLUR is less a belief than a habit, and every set gives you fresh chances to practice it.
- Trade kandi. One of the most joyful traditions at any festival, underground rave or faire. Make or bring bracelets and give them away.
- Look out for each other. Keep an eye on friends and strangers alike. If someone seems unwell, help them reach medical or a cool-down area, and stay until the pros arrive.
- Leave no trace. Use reusables, pack out what you pack in, and leave your patch of grass cleaner than you found it. Many festivals now put sustainability front and center.
- Welcome first-timers. Share water, offer a tip, or simply dance beside them. Our guide to gifts for someone going to their first festival covers PLUR for newcomers.
- Thank the crew. Medics, security, sound techs and the people emptying the bins are part of the family too.
As festivals grow bigger every year, PLUR keeps the scene grounded and welcoming. It turns a hundred thousand strangers into a supportive global family, and that's the magic that keeps us all coming back. Somewhere at your next event, a stranger is going to hold up two fingers. Be ready.
Wear your PLUR: snapback hats · women's cloaks · cotton hoodies · kids' festival clothing
Frequently asked questions
What is the PLUR handshake?
The PLUR handshake is the four-step ritual ravers use to trade kandi. Touch peace signs for peace, join two half-hearts for love, press palms together for unity, then lace fingers for respect while sliding a bracelet from your wrist to the other person's. It takes about five seconds, and it can start a friendship that lasts for years.
Is PLUR still a thing?
Yes. PLUR is alive in 2026, especially at trance events like Dreamstate, on the heavy side of the bass scene, and wherever kandi is traded. Some techno and house crowds express it more quietly, through respect and phone-free floors, but the core idea of peace, love, unity and respect still shapes how most festivals and raves feel.
Is PLUR the same as the Burning Man principles?
No. PLUR is a four-word motto that grew out of 1990s rave culture, while Burning Man's Ten Principles, including radical inclusion, gifting and leaving no trace, guide Burning Man and its official regional burns. They share a spirit of kindness and community, so kandi gifting feels right at home at a burn.
How do you make a kandi bracelet?
Thread plastic pony beads onto stretchy elastic cord, adding letter beads to spell a word or name. Size it so it slides over your hand, then tie the ends with a tight double knot and trim them. A single strand takes a few minutes; wide multi-row cuffs can take hours, so they're usually saved for special trades.
Written by Magus & Lylyth Fawn, the Los Angeles artists behind Magus Fawn. Magus makes VR and digital visionary art and produces Psy EDM. Lylyth makes fractal digital art and runs design and customer care. We've been selling wearable art since 2020 (4.8★ from 147 reviews as of October 2026), and every piece is made to order here at magusfawn.com. Come say hi on Instagram @magusfawn.
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